Spanish Reflexive Verbs: The Key to Fluent Conversations

Updated on: March 13, 2025

Spanish reflexive verbs are unique because they "reflect" the action back onto the person performing it. This indicates that the subject is the one who acts as well as the one who receives it. For example, "getting dressed" or "washing" may be reflexive if you're doing anything to yourself. Certain verbs in Spanish are reflexive by nature, whereas others only become reflexive in certain situations.

Since reflexive verbs are commonly employed in everyday conversations, such as when talking about routines, feelings, or personal care, Spanish language learners must master them. You may speak Spanish more smoothly and spontaneously if you know how to utilize these verbs correctly.

Key Tips Box

Make Use of the Correct Pronoun: Consistently match the subject with the reflexive pronoun. "Tú" uses "te," "yo" uses "me," and so forth.
Position Matters: The reflexive pronoun should normally come before the conjugated verb, with the exception of gerunds and infinitives, where it can come after.
Context is crucial: ascertain whether the activity is aimed at the subject or another person. Use the reflexive form if it is self-directed, and the non-reflexive form otherwise.

What Are Spanish Reflexive Verbs?

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In Spanish, reflexive verbs are a specific type of verb that indicates that the subject is acting for themselves. This indicates that the subject is the one who acts as well as the one who receives it. For instance, when you say "Me visto" (I dress myself), you're clothing yourself.

How Can the Subject Perform an Action on Themselves?

The action is focused back onto the subject in reflexive verbs. Non-reflexive verbs, on the other hand, may be used to address someone or something else. For example, "Me lavo" (I wash myself) is reflexive since the action is carried out on the subject, whereas "Lavo el coche" (I wash the automobile) is non-reflexive.

The "-se" Ending Identifier

The "-se" ending added to the verb's infinitive form is one way to recognize reflexive verbs in Spanish. The verb "levantar" becomes "levantarse" when it is reflexive, for instance. This conclusion shows that the subject is the object of the action.

Basic Structure: Subject + Reflexive Pronoun + Verb

The basic structure of a reflexive sentence in Spanish is: Subject + Reflexive Pronoun + Verb. Here's how it works:

  1. Subject: This is the person performing the action. For example, "Yo" (I).
  2. Reflexive Pronoun: This pronoun indicates that the action is being performed on the subject themselves. The reflexive pronouns in Spanish are "me" (I), "te" (you), "se" (he/she/it/they), "nos" (we), and "os" (you plural).
  3. Verb: This is the action being performed, which must be in its reflexive form. For example, "visto" (dressed) from the verb "vestirse" (to dress oneself).

Some common examples of reflexive verbs include:

  • Levantarse (to get up): "Yo me levanto" (I get up).
  • Despertarse (to wake up): "Ella se despierta" (She wakes up).
  • Vestirse (to dress oneself): "Nos vestimos" (We dress ourselves).
  • Bañarse (to bathe oneself): "Él se baña" (He bathes himself).

Understanding Spanish Reflexive Pronouns

In Spanish, there are five reflexive pronouns: me, te, se, nos, and os. These pronouns are used to indicate that the subject of the sentence is performing an action on themselves. Here's a breakdown of each pronoun and its corresponding subject:

Subject PronounReflexive PronounReflexive Pronoun in EnglishExample
YoMeMyselfMe visto (I dress myself)
TeYourselfTe lavas (You wash yourself)
Él, Ella, UstedSeHimself, Herself, YourselfSe viste (He/She/You formal dresses themselves)
Nosotros, NosotrasNosOurselvesNos levantamos (We get up)
Vosotros, VosotrasOsYourselvesOs levantáis (You plural get up)
Ellos, Ellas, UstedesSeThemselves, YourselvesSe levantan (They/You plural formal get up)

How Reflexive Pronouns Differ from Other Object Pronouns?

In contrast to other object pronouns, reflexive pronouns suggest that the subject is performing the action on themself. "Yo te veo" (I see you) employs the object pronoun "te," while "Yo me veo" (I see myself) utilizes the reflexive pronoun "me" to indicate that the action is directed back to the subject.

The Importance of Pronoun-Subject Agreement

It's crucial that reflexive pronouns **agree with the subject** in number and person. This ensures clarity and grammatical correctness in sentences. For instance, "Yo me visto" (I dress myself) correctly matches the subject "yo" with the reflexive pronoun "me."

Here are some examples of incorrect sentences and their corrections:

IncorrectCorrectExplanation
Yo se visto (I dress myself).Yo me visto (I dress myself).The subject "yo" requires the reflexive pronoun "me," not "se."
Tú nos levantamos (You get up).Tú te levantas (You get up).The subject "tú" requires the reflexive pronoun "te," not "nos."
Nosotros se levantamos (We get up).Nosotros nos levantamos (We get up).The subject "nosotros" requires the reflexive pronoun "nos," not "se."

What Happens Without the Reflexive Pronoun?

When you use a verb without a reflexive pronoun in Spanish, the meaning of the sentence changes significantly. Here's how:

Non-Reflexive Verbs

Without a reflexive pronoun, the verb is non-reflexive, meaning the action is directed at someone or something else, not the subject themselves. For example:

  • Reflexive: "Me visto" (I dress myself).
  • Non-Reflexive: "Visto a mi hermano" (I dress my brother).

In the non-reflexive form, the action of dressing is performed on someone else (my brother), not on the subject (I).

Change in Meaning

Some verbs change their meaning entirely when used reflexively versus non-reflexively. Here are some examples:

  • Reflexive: "Me encuentro" (I feel) vs. Non-Reflexive: "Encuentro mi paraguas" (I find my umbrella).
  • Reflexive: "Me levanto" (I get up) vs. Non-Reflexive: "Levanto la alfombra" (I lift the rug).
  • Reflexive: "Me llamo" (My name is) vs. Non-Reflexive: "Llamo a mi amigo" (I call my friend).

How to Conjugate Reflexive Verbs in Spanish

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Conjugating reflexive verbs in Spanish involves a straightforward process that ensures you express self-directed actions clearly and correctly. Here's a step-by-step guide on how to conjugate reflexive verbs:

  1. Removing the -se Ending: Start with the infinitive form of the reflexive verb, which always ends in "-se". Remove this ending to get the base verb. For example, "levantarse" becomes "levantar."
  1. Conjugating the Base Verb: Conjugate the base verb according to the subject and tense you are using. For instance, if you want to say "I get up" in the present tense, you conjugate "levantar" to "levanto."
  1. Adding the Appropriate Reflexive Pronoun: Add the correct reflexive pronoun to match the subject. For "I," you use "me," so the sentence becomes "Me levanto."

Here are some examples of conjugating reflexive verbs in the present tense:

SubjectLevantarse (to get up)Vestirse (to dress oneself)
YoMe levanto (I get up)Me visto (I dress myself)
Te levantas (You get up)Te vistes (You dress yourself)
Él/Ella/UstedSe levanta (He/She/You formal gets up)Se viste (He/She/You formal dresses themselves)
Nosotros (as)Nos levantamos (We get up)Nos vestimos (We dress ourselves)
Vosotros (as)Os levantáis (You plural get up)Os vestís (You plural dress yourselves)
Ellos/Ellas/UstedesSe levantan (They/You plural formal get up)Se visten (They/You plural formal dress themselves)

Common Conjugation Patterns

Reflexive verbs always finish in "-se" in their infinitive form. After this ending is removed during conjugation, the appropriate reflexive pronoun is added to denote the self-directed action.

  • -ar Verbs: Remove the "-ar" ending and add the appropriate conjugation ending (e.g., "hablar" becomes "hablo").
  • -er Verbs: Remove the "-er" ending and add the appropriate conjugation ending (e.g., "comer" becomes "como").
  • -ir Verbs: Remove the "-ir" ending and add the appropriate conjugation ending (e.g., "vivir" becomes "vivo").

For reflexive verbs, you simply add the reflexive pronoun before the conjugated verb. For example, "Me levanto" (I get up) or "Me visto" (I dress myself).

Infinitive Form and Conjugation

The infinitive form of reflexive verbs always ends in **"-se"**. In order to express the self-directed action, the proper reflexive pronoun is introduced after this ending is eliminated during conjugation.

Bañarse (to bathe oneself)

  • Infinitive: Bañarse
  • Remove "-se": Bañar

Despertarse (to wake up)

  • Infinitive: Despertarse
  • Remove "-se": Despertar

Cepillarse (to brush oneself)

  • Infinitive: Cepillarse
  • Remove "-se": Cepillar
SubjectBañarse (to bathe oneself)Despertarse (to wake up)Cepillarse (to brush oneself)
YoMe baño (I bathe myself)Me despierto (I wake up)Me cepillo (I brush myself)
Te bañas (You bathe yourself)Te despiertas (You wake up)Te cepillas (You brush yourself)
Él/Ella/UstedSe baña (He/She/You formal bathes themselves)Se despierta (He/She/You formal wakes up)Se cepilla (He/She/You formal brushes themselves)
Nosotros (as)Nos bañamos (We bathe ourselves)Nos despertamos (We wake up)Nos cepillamos (We brush ourselves)
Vosotros (as)Os bañáis (You plural bathe yourselves)Os despertáis (You plural wake up)Os cepilláis (You plural brush yourselves)
Ellos/Ellas/UstedesSe bañan (They/You plural formal bathe themselves)Se despiertan (They/You plural formal wake up)Se cepillan (They/You plural formal brush themselves)

Reflexive Pronoun Placement

Standard Placement Before Conjugated Verbs

In most cases, the reflexive pronoun is placed before the conjugated verb. For example:

  • Me levanto (I get up).
  • Te vistes (You dress yourself).
  • Se baña (He/She/You formal bathes themselves).

Exceptions with Infinitives and Gerunds

When using infinitives or gerunds, the reflexive pronoun can be placed either before the infinitive or attached to the end of the infinitive or gerund.

Infinitives: The reflexive pronoun can be placed either before the infinitive or attached to the end of the infinitive. Here are correct examples:

  • Before the Infinitive: "Quiero me levantar" (I want to get up).
  • Attached to the End: "Quiero levantarme" (I want to get up).

Gerunds: The reflexive pronoun is typically attached to the end of the gerund. Here's a correct example:

  • "Estoy levantándome" (I am getting up).

Rules for Commands

When giving commands, the placement of reflexive pronouns differs between affirmative and negative commands.

Affirmative Commands: The reflexive pronoun is attached to the end of the verb. For example:

  • "Levántate" (Get up).
  • "Vístete" (Dress yourself).

Negative Commands: The reflexive pronoun is placed before the verb. For example:

  • "No te levantes" (Don't get up).
  • "No te vayas" (Don't go).

Here are more examples to illustrate the placement of reflexive pronouns:

Before a Conjugated VerbWith an InfinitiveWith a Gerund
"Me visto" (I dress myself)."Quiero levantarme" (I want to get up) or "Quiero me levantar" (I want to get up)."Estoy levantándome" (I am getting up) or "Estoy me levantando" (I am getting up).

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Putting the reflexive pronoun in the incorrect place is a frequent error, particularly when using gerunds and infinitives. Saying "Quiero me levantar" is fine, for example, although in many situations, it is more frequent and recommended to add the pronoun at the end ("Quiero levantarme").

Another error is completely omitting the reflexive pronoun, which alters the sentence's meaning. For instance, "Yo me visto" (I dress myself) denotes a self-directed action, while "Yo visto" (I dress) suggests clothing for someone else.

Types of Reflexive Verbs in Spanish

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Spanish reflexive verbs can be divided into several categories based on their meaning and usage. Let’s see it!

Verbs with Both Reflexive and Non-Reflexive Forms

Many Spanish verbs have both reflexive and non-reflexive forms, which differ in meaning based on whether the action is directed at the subject themselves or at someone/something else. Example:

  • Non-Reflexive: "Lavo los platos" (I wash the dishes).
  • Reflexive: "Me lavo" (I wash myself).

Verbs That Change Meaning When Reflexive

Some verbs change their meaning significantly when used in their reflexive form. Here are some examples:

VerbEncontrar(se)Levantar(se)Volver(se)
Non-Reflexive"Encuentro mi paraguas" (I find my umbrella)."Levanto la alfombra" (I lift the rug)."Vuelvo a casa" (I return home).
Reflexive"Me encuentro cansado" (I feel tired)."Me levanto" (I get up)."Me vuelvo loco" (I am going crazy).

Inherently Reflexive Verbs

These verbs are always reflexive and cannot be used without a reflexive pronoun. They include actions like taking care of oneself or curling up. Here are some examples:

  • Acurrucarse (to curl up).
  • Arrepentirse (to repent).
  • Darse cuenta de (to realize).
  • Quejarse de (to complain about).

Reciprocal Reflexive Verbs

Reciprocal verbs are used to describe actions that two or more people perform to each other. They are reflexive only in their plural forms and use the pronouns "nos," "os," and "se."

  • Nos abrazamos (We hug each other).
  • Os conocéis (You know each other).
  • Se ayudan (They help each other).

These verbs work similarly to other reflexive verbs in terms of pronoun placement but are limited to plural subjects.

Common Spanish Reflexive Verbs and Their Uses

Spanish reflexive verbs are frequently used in everyday conversation and are essential for describing self-directed actions. The following list of frequently used reflexive verbs is organized according to usage:

Daily Routine VerbsEmotional State VerbsMovement and Position Verbs
Levantarse (to get up): "Me levanto temprano" (I get up early).Sentirse (to feel): "Me siento feliz hoy" (I feel happy today).Moverse (to move): "Me muevo rápidamente" (I move quickly).
Ducharse (to shower): "Me ducho todos los días" (I shower every day).Enojarse (to get angry): "Me enojo fácilmente" (I get angry easily).Acercarse (to get close to): "Nos acercamos a la puerta" (We get close to the door).
Vestirse (to get dressed): "Nos vestimos rápidamente" (We get dressed quickly).Preocuparse (to worry): "Me preocupo por mis exámenes" (I worry about my exams).Alejarse (to move away from): "Se aleja de la ciudad" (He/She moves away from the city).
Cepillarse los dientes (to brush one's teeth): "Me cepillo los dientes después de comer" (I brush my teeth after eating).Alegrarse (to be glad): "Se alegra mucho cuando ve a sus amigos" (He/She is very glad when he/she sees his/her friends).Caerse (to fall): "Me caí en la calle" (I fell on the street).

Contextual Examples of Usage

Reflexive verbs are used frequently in everyday Spanish to describe self-directed actions. For example:

  • Me visto y me voy al trabajo (I dress myself and go to work).
  • Ella se siente triste cuando llueve (She feels sad when it rains).
  • Nos movemos mucho durante el día (We move a lot during the day).
  • Nos abrazamos cuando nos vemos (We hug each other when we see each other).
  • Se quejan del ruido en su vecindario (They complain about the noise in their neighborhood).
  • Me disculpo por el error (I apologize for the mistake).
  • Se despidió de sus amigos antes de viajar (He/She said goodbye to his/her friends before traveling).
  • Nos casamos en una ceremonia íntima (We got married in an intimate ceremony).

When to Use Reflexive vs. Non-Reflexive Forms

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Depending on whether the action is performed on oneself or on someone or something else, one can choose between reflexive and non-reflexive forms in Spanish. Here are some recommendations and things to think about:

Choosing the Correct Form

1. Actions Performed on Oneself: Use the reflexive form when the subject performs an action on themselves. For example:

  • Me peino (I comb my hair).
  • Te maquillas (You put on makeup).

2. Actions Performed on Others: Use the non-reflexive form when the action is directed at someone or something else. For example:

  • Pelo a mi perro (I groom my dog).
  • Maquillo a mi hermana (I put makeup on my sister).

Cultural Differences in Reflexive Usage

Sometimes the way actions are conceptualized in Spanish and English differs, which may affect whether a verb is employed reflexively. For example, "to shave" does not always indicate a reflexive action in English, whereas "afeitarse" in Spanish is reflexive since it refers to shaving oneself.

Verbs That Are Conceptualized Differently in Spanish

Some verbs have different reflexive and non-reflexive meanings in Spanish compared to English. For example:

Afeitarse (to shave oneself):  

  • Non-Reflexive: "Afeito a mi hermano" (I shave my brother).
  • Reflexive: "Me afeito" (I shave myself).

Arreglar(se):  

  • Non-Reflexive: "Arreglo el coche" (I fix the car).
  • Reflexive: "Me arreglo para la fiesta" (I get ready for the party).

Practice Exercises to Reinforce Understanding

To reinforce your understanding of when to use reflexive vs. non-reflexive forms, try these exercises:

1. Fill in the Blanks: Complete sentences with either the reflexive or non-reflexive form of the verb.

  • Example: "Ella ______________ (maquillar) para la fiesta."
  • Answer: "Ella se maquilla."

2. Translate Sentences: Translate English sentences into Spanish, choosing the correct form of the verb.

  • Example: "I fix my bike."
  • Translation: "Arreglo mi bicicleta" (non-reflexive).
  • Example: "I get ready for work."
  • Translation: "Me arreglo para el trabajo" (reflexive).

3. Create Sentences: Write your own sentences using both reflexive and non-reflexive forms of a verb.

  • Example: "Me peino para la foto" (reflexive) vs. "Peino a mi hija para la fiesta" (non-reflexive).

Reflexive Verbs in Different Tenses and Moods

Spanish reflexive verbs can be used in various tenses and moods, each with its own conjugation and usage rules. Here’s how reflexive verbs function across different tenses and moods:

TenseExplenationExamples
PresentIn the present tense, reflexive verbs are used to describe habitual or ongoing actions performed on oneself. Me visto (I dress myself).Te lavas (You wash yourself).Se peina (He/She/You formal combs his/her/your hair).
Past - PreteriteUsed for completed actions with a clear beginning and end.Me vestí (I dressed myself).Te lavaste (You washed yourself).
Past - ImperfectUsed for ongoing or repeated actions in the past.Me vestía (I used to dress myself).Te lavabas (You used to wash yourself).
FutureThe future tense is used to describe actions that will occur in the future.Me vestiré (I will dress myself).Te lavarás (You will wash yourself).Se peinará (He/She/You formal will comb his/her/your hair).
Command Forms (Imperative) - Affirmative CommandsCommands in Spanish are used to give instructions or orders. The reflexive pronoun is attached to the end of the verb.Vístete (Dress yourself).Lávate (Wash yourself).
Command Forms (Imperative) - Negative CommandsThe reflexive pronoun is placed before the verb.No te vayas (Don't go).No te laves (Don't wash yourself).
Subjunctive Mood The subjunctive mood is used to express doubt, uncertainty, or possibility. Reflexive verbs in the subjunctive mood are used to describe hypothetical or uncertain actions performed on oneself.Espero que te laves (I hope you wash yourself).Es importante que se vista (It's important that he/she/you formal dress themselves).
Progressive TensesProgressive tenses describe ongoing actions. To form the progressive tense with reflexive verbs, use the verb "estar" in the appropriate tense, followed by the gerund form of the reflexive verb.Present Progressive: "Estoy me lavando" (I am washing myself) or "Estoy lavándome" (I am washing myself).Past Progressive (Imperfect)**: "Estaba me lavando" (I was washing myself) or "Estaba lavándome" (I was washing myself).

Conclusion

We have discussed the definition, conjugation, and usage of Spanish reflexive verbs in a variety of tenses and moods in this discussion. Here is a summary of the main ideas:

  • Definition and Significance: In Spanish, reflexive verbs are crucial for describing self-directed activities because they represent acts carried out by the subject on themselves.
  • Conjugation: Reflexive verbs involves adding the proper reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os) and deleting the "-se" ending from the infinitive form.
  • Reflexive pronouns: Except infinitives and gerunds, which allow them to be appended to the end, reflexive pronouns are typically placed before the conjugated verb and must agree with the subject.
  • Types of Reflexive Verbs: Depending on the situation, certain verbs can be employed reflexively or non-reflexively, while others are reflexive by nature.
  • Tenses and Moods: Reflexive verbs have distinct conjugations and applications in the imperative, subjunctive, progressive, past, present, and future tenses.
  • Common Reflexive Verbs: Verbs like "levantarse," "vestirse," and "bañarse" are frequently used reflexive verbs in everyday speech and emotional expressions.

Mastering these concepts enhances your ability to communicate effectively in Spanish. Take your Spanish skills to the next level and make every conversation count!

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