Saying Sorry in Spanish: The Complete Apology Guide

Updated on: January 15, 2024
Sorry in Spanish

Sorry, a word we use almost every day either because we made a serious mistake or because we accidentally pushed someone out of the underground.

Knowing how to say Sorry in Spanish is a great advantage to have a better communication with your friends or acquaintances. In this article I will show you how to use this word in different contexts as well as the ways to apologize and even to forgive in Spanish. 

20 ways of Saying Sorry in Spanish

1. Lo siento - I'm sorry

This is a general and widely used phrase to express apologies. It can be used in various situations to convey regret.

2. Perdóname - Forgive me

A more personal way to ask for forgiveness, using the verb "perdonar."

3. Mis disculpas - My apologies

A formal way to express regret, acknowledging responsibility for a mistake.

4. Fue mi culpa  - It was my fault

Taking ownership of the mistake by saying "It was my fault."

5. Te pido disculpas - I apologize to you

Politely requesting forgiveness, indicating a sincere intention to make amends.

6.  No debería haberlo hecho  - I shouldn't have done that

Admitting a lapse in judgment or acknowledging an action that shouldn't have occurred.

7. Fui imprudente - I was thoughtless.

Acknowledging lack of consideration or mindfulness in a situation.

8. Lamento haberte herido  - I regret hurting you

Expressing genuine remorse for causing emotional or physical harm.

9.  Pido perdón - I ask for forgiveness

Formally requesting forgiveness from the other person.

10. Estoy apenado - I am ashamed

Conveying a deeper sense of regret and personal shame for one's actions.

11. Fue un error  - It was a mistake

Admitting that the action in question was an unintentional error.

12. Disculpa la molestia - Sorry for the inconvenience

Expressing regret for causing trouble or inconvenience to the other person.

13. Pésame mucho  - I feel very sorry

 Conveying deep sorrow or regret, often used for more serious situations.

14. Me equivoqué - I was wrong

Admitting fault and acknowledging that the actions taken were incorrect.

15. Perdóname por favor - Please forgive me

Adding a polite touch to the request for forgiveness.

16. No era mi intención - It wasn't my intention

Clarifying that the negative outcome was unintentional.

17. Fui descuidado - I was careless

Admitting to a lack of attentiveness or care that led to the mistake.

18. Te ruego que me perdones - I beg you to forgive me

 Using a more intense plea for forgiveness, expressing a deep desire for reconciliation.

19. Acepta mis disculpas - Accept my apologies

Formally asking the other person to accept the offered apology.

20. Cometí un error  -  I made a mistake

Acknowledging a straightforward mistake without making excuses.

20 Ways to Forgive in Spanish

When we apologize we expect to be forgiven, so here are 10 ways to express forgiveness in Spanish.

1. Perdonar - To forgive

2. Dar el perdón - To grant forgiveness

3. Disculpar - To excuse

4. Dejar pasar - To let it go

5. Absolver - To absolve

6. Olvidar y perdonar - To forget and forgive

7. No guardar rencor - Not to hold a grudge

8. Hacer la vista gorda - To turn a blind eye

9. Dejar en el olvido - To leave in oblivion

10. Superar la ofensa - To overcome the offense

11. Liberar de culpa - To release from guilt

12. Excusar - To excuse

13. Brindar clemencia - To show mercy

14. Absolver de toda culpa - To absolve from all blame

15. Ignorar la ofensa - To ignore the offense

16. Ofrecer una segunda oportunidad - To offer a second chance

17. Conceder el perdón de corazón - To grant forgiveness from the heart

18. Brindar el beneficio de la duda - To give the benefit of the doubt

19. Poner punto final al malentendido - To put an end to the misunderstanding

20. Pasar la página - To turn the page

20 Phrases to Use "Sorry" in Spanish

1. Perdón por la confusión - Sorry for the confusion

2. Lo siento si te lastimé - I'm sorry if I hurt you

3. Te pido disculpas sinceramente - I sincerely apologize to you

4. Fue mi error, lo reconozco - It was my mistake, I acknowledge it

5. Lamento la incomodidad - I regret the inconvenience

6. Mis disculpas por el malentendido - My apologies for the misunderstanding

7. Pido perdón de corazón - I ask for forgiveness from the bottom of my heart

8. Disculpa mi torpeza - Excuse my clumsiness

9. Perdona mi descuido - Forgive my carelessness

10. Siento mucho haber llegado tarde - I'm very sorry for being late

11. Mis más sinceras disculpas - My most sincere apologies

12. Estoy arrepentido de mis acciones - I am repentant for my actions

13. Fui insensible, lamento mucho - I was insensitive, I deeply regret it

14. Disculpa si te causé molestias - Sorry if I caused you any inconvenience

15. Perdona mi falta de tacto - Forgive my lack of tact

16. Fue una falta de respeto, lo siento - It was disrespectful, I'm sorry

17. Te ruego que me perdones por mi error - I beg you to forgive me for my mistake

18. Lamento haberte defraudado - I'm sorry for letting you down

19. Disculpa la interrupción - Sorry for the interruption

20. Lo siento si te ofendí - I'm sorry if I offended you

Grammatical Rules for Using Sorry in Spanish

When using apologies in Spanish, it's crucial to understand the grammatical rules to convey your message accurately. Generally, apologies in Spanish involve using the verb "sentir" (to feel) or "disculpar" (to excuse). The structure often includes:

Subject-Verb Agreement

In Spanish, verbs must agree with the subject in both person and number. When using "sorry" phrases, ensure that the verb form matches the subject. For example:

  • Correct: Lo siento por llegar tarde. (I'm sorry for arriving late.)
  • Incorrect: Lo sientes por llegar tarde.

Placement of Pronouns

When using pronouns with "sorry" expressions, it's essential to place them correctly in the sentence. Pronouns such as "me," "te," "le," should be placed before the verb or attached to an infinitive. For example:

  • Correct: Perdóname por favor. (Forgive me, please.)
  • Incorrect: Perdona por favor me.

Using the Appropriate Verb Form

Choose the correct verb form based on the context and the person you are addressing. For instance, if you're apologizing to someone formally, use the appropriate formal verb forms:

  • Correct (formal): Le pido disculpas. (I apologize to you, formal.)
  • Incorrect: Te pido disculpas. (When addressing someone formally.)

Prepositions and Complementary Phrases

Pay attention to the prepositions used in "sorry" expressions. The prepositions "por" and "de" are commonly used, and their usage depends on the specific context. For example:

  • Correct: Lo siento por mi error. (I'm sorry for my mistake.)
  • Correct: Pido disculpas de corazón. (I apologize from the heart.)

Negation and Double Negation:

When expressing apologies, be cautious with negation. Double negation is often used for emphasis in Spanish, but it's important to use it appropriately. For example:

  • Correct: No debería haberlo hecho. (I shouldn't have done that.)
  • Incorrect: No no debería haberlo hecho.

Main Mistakes English Speakers Make When Using Sorry in Spanish

English speakers often face challenges when transitioning apologies to Spanish. Common mistakes include:

Overusing "Lo siento"

English speakers may rely too heavily on the phrase "Lo siento" without diversifying their expressions of apology. While "Lo siento" is a valid and common way to apologize, using it exclusively might sound repetitive in certain contexts. It's essential to be aware of alternative expressions to convey sincerity and variety.

Literal Translations

Translating apologies directly from English to Spanish can lead to awkward or incorrect expressions. English and Spanish may have different cultural nuances and preferred phrasings for apologies. It's crucial to learn specific apology phrases in Spanish rather than relying on direct translations to ensure cultural appropriateness.

Misplacing Pronouns

English and Spanish have different rules for pronoun placement. English speakers might incorrectly place pronouns when using "Sorry" expressions in Spanish. Understanding where to position pronouns in relation to verbs and objects is crucial for grammatical accuracy and clear communication.

Ignoring Formality

Spanish has formal and informal ways of addressing individuals, and the level of formality is important, especially in apologies. English speakers may not always use the appropriate level of formality, particularly when apologizing to someone older or in a professional context.

Neglecting Regional Variations

Spanish is spoken in various regions, and there are regional differences in the use of certain expressions. English speakers may not be aware of these variations and might inadvertently choose expressions that are less common or unfamiliar in a particular region.

Sorry in Spanish: Final thoughts

In short, knowing how to say 'sorry' in Spanish is not just about memorizing how to translate this word into Spanish. It is learning how to truly express the feeling of being sorry for something.

In Hispanic American culture, mainly in Latin America, properly expressing the act of asking for forgiveness is a form of education and good manners. Use this guide every time you need to say sorry in Spanish.

FAQ

When should I use "I'm sorry" versus "Forgive"?

"Sorry" is more formal and general, while "Sorry" is more personal. Choose based on the situation and your relationship with the person.

Is it necessary to use formalities when apologizing in Spanish?

Yes, it is important, especially in formal settings. Use the proper form of "usted" when apologizing to older people or in professional contexts.

Can I use "Sorry" instead of "disculparse" in Spanish?

You can, but it is preferable to use the appropriate expressions in Spanish to convey sincerity and cultural respect.

How can I express genuine regret in Spanish?

Use expressions such as "Lamento mucho" or "Estoy verdaderamente arrepentido" to convey sincere regret.

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